You must be talking about proy at cultexit.org, one of his classic posts is published, here; Excuses, Misery & the BK Laity.
Proy was a moderator here and was going to become one of the directors. Then blew it all by discussing (and publishing on his own site) private matters about others such as sarah that he derived from his privileged moderator status with another ex-member called sparkal who, like you said, was operating two accounts; sparkal and suss gi. In one of his more lucid moments, Sparkal left a Classic Post, here; Teachers Training - Satire but there are many more of them.
It was very bad form for anyone in the counseling/cult exiting world and entirely against the gaurantee offered to cultexit forum members in the guidelines, see below.
Although, in the end, they both had their accounts suspended, I think it is necessary to understand and occomidate the kinds of pressures ex-BKs go through after leaving Gyan which can include suicidal tendencies, mood swings and so on. It can also be incredibly lonely as one is so cut off afterwards. But, it is all out in the open and recorded in public now, here. You decide if the best thing was done or not. As to the "admin encouraging", the guidelines are, here,elsewhere, proy wrote:The BK related threads will shortly be moved into a Confidential Forum on cultexit.org. My reason is that cultexit is trying to encourage non-BK related ex-cult members, and I feel they are being put off by the predominance of all us ex-BKs.
There is no cover up. It has been proven to me that the issues raised in those threads have no evidence to back them up, and that Sarah is both real and in need of our help here in this forum. I once again apologise for my hasty post on cultexit on that issue. It was never my intention to bring this site into disrepute, I hope you all know that. I have been posting here for a long time, and it was this site which helped me to exit the BKs and to save my marriage. Many thanks to admin for running this site.
Bruv, I am not sure whether 'desperate' or 'pathetic' is the better word to chose to describe your attempt to minimise, discredit ... and ignore what is going on here. And by "what is going on here", I do not mean just what the site entails but the effects it is having within the BK world. They cover is blown, they are having to become more honest ... may be even 'accountable' one day.admin wrote:To gain membership all one requires is an active email address and to answer a simple question determining which Usergroup one wishes to join. Membership is basis on trust and respect.
Because of the wish to protect contributor's anonymity, and the insecure nature of the internet, it is impossible for us to police individual's memberships. Although not encouraged, it is possible for individuals to have more than one membership and there is nothing the forum moderators can do about this. According to the limitation of the software, it is not possible to track where post are made from.
On the PBK front; well, the BKWSU goes from banish them from centers worldwide (even in the enlightened West) and calling them a "virus", to dragging them off in cars to beat them up in India. As for the other Splinter groups, all you had to do to "be made aware" was look at the front page of this forum ... so what are you talking about? Yes, I agree, that is another matter that we have brought firmly to light here and into BK consciousness generally. Actually, I personally wrote to the United Nations complaining about this when, a) I read the evidence to convince me it was real, and b) certain BKs so sickened me by their actions. Enough was enough. At least now it is a matter of record.
As for "numbers" ...
- there is an old saying in politics, "one letter equals 10,000 votes".
What is a shame is that progressive BK did not grasp the opportunity they were offered in the very beginning to make the site truly inclusive rather than all the ******* throwing less enlightened members have engaged in from on the Wikipedia episode or the law suit to shut us down here. But, there you have it, the atmosphere of fear, control and conformity inhibits them. The feedback we get is that BKs have been fed what to think about this forum without actually ever reading.
What I do appreciate about individuals such as yourself doing, is coming on here and help us document accurately the mind set of the Brahma Kumari world which exists behind the polished PR front. So, please, keep raising the issues and let us help you seek your own truth.