SweetSajani wrote:Right now before I give up I still want to try one more time to get her out and this time with everyone's help. If nothing works then ... well, its my fate ...
That is good advice from alladin and I agree. Work quickly because the BKs will be.
You can learn here what the BKs are really about. Folks here have 10, 20 years worth of experience inside and out the BKWSU or more. Folks here used to be teachers, centers-in-charge, surrendered souls and hang out with the senior sisters. They have met "God" (BapDada) when you used to meet him one to one in person. The BKWSU 'can' still bull*** us individually but adding all the views together, including those of 'good BKs', we are creating an all round impression.
Educate your family and relative with the facts. Isolate the problem. Personally, I would say that your mother is suffering from obsessive-addictive patterns in which Naina Bhen has been created as a Guru (This is actually against real BKWSU) and our Father has to stop supporting that. He obviously has to be careful though as her craziness could be turned around and used to destroy the family (e.g. divorce, money etc). The BKs will still take that money.
Please keep documenting things and ask any question about the Knowledge or Lifestyle you want. We will tell you 100% openly what they say and try and explain what it means. You will be helping others who will read this but be afraid to write or ask on the forum.
From a BK point of view, she should really be speaking to a Senior Sister. So could your family to put a stop to Naina. But be aware ... you cannot trust the Senior Sisters. Only use them to put a stop to the center-in-charge excesses and make her let go of your mother.
Ask you mother is she has "taken Shrimat from the Senior Sisters" to do what she is doing. The SS might just ask your mother if she wants to leave your family. In that case, definitely report here what they say about the money.
The SS will say stuff like, "it is your mother's decision and it has nothing to do with us ... anyone can leave when they want ... Baba says do not give sorrow ... here, have a holy sweetie so our vibrations can fix you
" which is all bull. Leave to the eternal damnation the BKWSU teaches them? You Mother is attention seeking.
In my opinion, the SS are most worried about bad PR. But it is also our experience that they will say anything. The 'holy sweetie trick' to fix all problems is their favorite. One day they will be caught out for saying too much. The center-in-charge will be afraid of them though, so in a sense, its is using fire to fight fire.
You asked what to tell Naina on the phone ... you have to dedice. Others here might have an opinion. I would say that you could "tell her you want Shrimat from a Senior Sister about what is going on with regards the money ... that you have spoken to us and that you are going to tell Mohini, jayanit and Janki about her ... and report it to the papers". Start filing stories with newspapers and magazine. They wont publish them straight away but it will all go on file. Ask the UN why they support them.
Please, other folks voice their opinion.