khemkaran wrote:सा. मु. 19.09.2015 (पृ. 2)
''अभी तुम जानते हो कन्या पवित्र है और अधर कन्या उनको कहा जाता है जो अपवित्र बनने के बाद फिर पवित्र बनती है। ''
यदि कन्या पवित्र है, तो पवित्र बनने का पुरुषार्थ क्यों?
कृपया अपने विचार जरूर दें।
SM 19.09.2015 (pg. 2)
"Now you know that a (complete) virgin (unmarried as well as chaste/celibate youthful lady) is pure, while a half-virgin is said to be one who becomes pure (observes celibacy/chastity) after becoming impure (after having indulged in physical sexual relations)."
If a virgin girl is pure, why make effort to become pure?
Please, do share your views.
Kanya pavitr hoti hai kyonki vah ees janam mey apavitr nahi bani, lekin kanya ki matlab nahi hai ki vah atma-abhimani ho gai. Atma abhimani banne ke liye purushart karna hota he. Anek janmon ka papon ka bhoja unki sir par bhi hai, jo sirf Yaad se basm karna hota hai. Unki sharir bhi apavitr hoti hai, vikar se paida hua hoti hai.
Kanya pavitr hoti hai, to unki pavitrata ki raksha karne ki zimmevari kisko uthana padega. Agar vah unki lokik sambhandion ke under hi reh gai, to veh unki shadi karne ka bhi mazburat bhi kar sakte he. Nahi bhi kare, phir bhi saadharn kumari reh jati hai. Jab vo Prajapita Brahma Kumari ban jati hai, tab bataya ki mai kumari ko mata banata hu, kyonki sari manvi atmaon ka jo bap he, unki banne se vo sari dunya ka mata jaisi ban jati hai, shivshakti ban jati hai.
Ek aur bat hai ki sanskar milne ka unki purushart kaise bane. Ye pravritti marg hai. To unki pravritti kaise ho sakti hai. Unki pravritti tab hi ho sakti hai jab ShivBaba ki ban jati hai.
Jaise bataya ki hame vatavarn ko pavirt banana hai. Vo keise banae jab koi pavitr nahi bana, pavitr vatavarn kahan se aye. Iski matlab hai ki pavitrata ki purusharth kare. Kumari sharir se pavitr hoti hai, lekin atma ki pavitrata, man ki pavitrata unki bhi honi chahie jis kelie purusharth karna hota hai.
A virgin is pure, because she did not become impure in this birth (did not have physical sexual relationship), but the meaning of a virgin is not that she has become soul-conscious. Effort is to be made to become soul-conscious. The burden of sins of many births is there on her head which is to be burnt by 'Yaad' only. Her body is also impure, it is created through vice.
A virgin is pure(chaste), but who is to take the responsibility over safeguarding her purity(chastity). If she remains in her lokik family, they can also force her to marry. Even if they don't, even then she remains just an ordinary virgin girl. When she becomes Prajapita Brahma Kumari, then it is said that I make the kumari into a mother, because by belonging to the Father of all people she becomes as if a mother of the whole world, she becomes a shivshakti.
One more aspect is that how will making the effort to harmonise the sanskars become possible for her. This is the family path, so how can she also be part of a family. She can have a family when she belongs to ShivBaba.
Just as it is said that we have to purify the atmosphere. How can we do that when no one has become pure, from where will a pure atmosphere come. It means to make effort for purity. A virgin girl is pure with her body, but her soul, her mind should also be pure, for which effort has to be made.